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Aristotle said about anger:

“Anybody can become angry that is easy, but to be angry with the right person and to the right degree and at the right time and for the right purpose, and in the right way that is not within everybody's power and is not easy."

You know most of the time we are stepped down in our life due to this anger. Anger is not an encouraging behavior, you are supposed to be calm, even though the situation is worse. See an example how the anger has reacted in between the life of father and son.

Father was an chief engineer in an electrical company he had a son at the age of 5 years. His dream was to buy a car within next three years, and by god grace he achieved that within 3 months. He was very happy, bought the car and parked in front of the house. He rode the car with his family and enjoyed a lot on that day. Next day the car was dirty so he planned to wash the car. The new fabulous red color car which was the dream for thirty years was achieved by him. Well in that happy moment he started to clean the car, while in the mean time his son played behind the car with his dog. He was washing the car with an excitement and also noticed his son playing with the dog. He removed the tool box from the car and placed in the grass. Son immediately took the screw driver from the tool box and scratched(wrote something) on the car also gave a heavy blow on the backside which made a dent on that. By seeing son’s act, father became very angry he lost himself, straightly he went near him, snatched the screw driver, hit his son harshly. Now the son was bleeding heavily from the fingers, the father took his son to the hospital X-rays were taken, the finger bones were broken into multiple pieces. Doctor told “We have to remove the middle finger immediately as no other option available” . The father couldn’t do anything he cried over there. He felt “My anger made my son to lose his finger”. The operation was started he had been waiting for 2 hours outside the operation theatre. The son was shifted to the general ward. The father couldn’t face the son, at last the son told “Sorry Dad I won’t do this again to your car. I’m very sad about today. I love you Dad forever”. By hearing those words the father broken down into tears. The son again asked “Dad when my finger will grow again” .

Father couldn’t stand there, he came out of hospital and saw his car he gave a heavy blow on it. He said “You the stupid who made me to show the anger against my son”.
While doing that he saw the scratches on the car, the father saw the scratches and it showed “I love you dad”.

He got ashamed, found guilty about his act and cried a lot.

Friends anger make us to lose our loved ones and also our love, so please be careful, make yourself calm which lead the way to success and affection from others.

For every minute you are angry, you lose sixty seconds of happiness.